As a therapist and family mediator, I’ve heard from clients that I’m thoughtful, speak plainly, and have a calm, calming presence. They like my caring and humor. Sometimes I’m insightful. I’m not easily thrown by things like conflict, graphic stories, or things you think nobody will understand. I sometimes see people under a lot of stress, and I try not to judge anyone by their worst decisions or moments. I’ve paid a lot of attention to family dysfunction, trauma, abuse, race/racism, gender and sexuality, cultural differences, and more. I’m always ready to talk about how our experiences shape us.
